Practical guide
Find My Location Sharing: People, Duration and Stopping
Choose who sees your Find My location, which device supplies it and when sharing ends. Review named recipients and Family Sharing separately before treating a visit arrangement as ongoing access.
Choose the purpose, person and ending point
For a voluntary visit or pickup, decide what information is actually useful before enabling location sharing. “See my location until we meet today” and “always see my location” are different arrangements. Name the person, the purpose and the ending point; then choose controls that match that scope.
Someone receiving a sharing request can decline. Apple’s current guide says the recipient can tap Cancel instead of Share. A relationship or household role does not by itself establish agreement to continuing location access.
Version note: these steps follow Apple’s English iPhone User Guide with iOS 27 selected, checked 11 November 2026. Choose the version matching your device in the official guide. Menu wording can differ. This article reads the documented controls; it has not operated an iPhone or tested an account.
Purpose
Coordinate today’s voluntary visit.
Scope
One named recipient; inspect the actual source device and end time.
Review
Check the sharing setting, not an assumption about future access.
Original explanatory diagram; not an Apple screen, account setting or device test.
Use the phone-privacy conversation guide if the unresolved issue is access to your device rather than this particular sharing feature. These instructions concern your own account in ordinary voluntary adult coordination.
Check which device supplies the shared location
- Open Find My → Me and inspect Sharing From.
- Turn on Share My Location if you choose to share.
- If the phone is not the selected source and this is the device you intend to use, Apple describes Use This iPhone as My Location.
A source-device check matters when you own more than one device. For sharing from another device, Apple says to open Find My on that device and change the location source there. Do not assume a device left at home represents the phone you are carrying.
The guide adds a specific exception: with a paired Apple Watch GPS + Cellular model, location is shared from the watch when it is out of range of the iPhone and on your wrist. That does not apply to every watch model or situation.
If others cannot see your location after setup, the source directs you to check Settings → Privacy & Security → Location Services → Find My. This is a documented first check, not a diagnosis of every missing-location problem or a guarantee of signal precision.
Source: [1].
Share with a named person and chosen duration
- In Find My → People, tap the Add button, then Share My Location.
- Enter the intended person in the With field, or select the contact. Check that it is the intended recipient.
- Tap Done, then choose how long to share. The cited version includes Custom for a duration or end time.
The icon labels above come from the accessibility text in the selected official guide. Use the actual control shown on your version. An indefinite scope is not needed merely because you want a short coordination window.
Fictional example: Morgan and Alex agree that Alex may use Morgan’s location for an afternoon visit. Morgan checks the phone as the source and selects the agreed ending point in Custom. Alex has not promised to answer every message or accept an added arrival alert. This is an original planning example, not a report that a notification was delivered.
Location viewing and arrival/departure notifications have different controls. Deal with an alert request separately rather than treating location access as permission for every recurring notification.
Source: [1].
Stop one recipient or hide all location sharing
On a phone, scroll inside the table. Keyboard users can focus the table region and use the arrow keys.
| Your aim | Current documented control | Scope to keep clear |
|---|---|---|
| End sharing with one person | People → person → Stop Sharing My Location → Stop Sharing Location. | A named recipient; not a claim that every other recipient was removed. |
| Pause a named person’s view | People → person → More → Hide Location. | The guide calls this pausing; do not substitute it for an understood permanent change. |
| Hide your location from everyone | Me → turn off Share My Location. | The overall location-sharing switch; different from deleting one alert. |
| Stop new sharing requests | Me → turn off Allow Friend Requests. | New requests; the source does not describe this as removing existing recipients. |
After changing a setting, describe only the scope you actually changed. “I stopped sharing with Alex” is narrower than “all location access is off.” Do not infer that previously viewed information, screenshots or a person’s memory have disappeared.
The cited stop instructions do not establish how another person reacts or what messages every software version sends. If a conversation is needed, state your own decision and the actual arrangement; do not promise a hidden or undetectable change.
Source: [1].
Review Family Sharing as a separate route
Apple’s Family Sharing page says that when the organizer sets up location sharing, the organizer’s location is automatically shared with the family, including new members added later. It then says family members can choose whether to share their own location. Do not turn this conditional organizer behavior into “joining a family always shares every adult’s location.”
For individual family recipients, the guide uses Settings → Family → Location Sharing, with sharing selected for each family member. Each receives a message and may choose to share back. It separately describes Automatically Share Location for members joining later. Review that future-member scope if your agreement names only today’s members.
An adult member can stop sharing with a family member. Children and teens under Screen Time parental controls may have different abilities to change settings; that topic needs the relevant parental-control guide and is outside this adult coordination article. Lost-device and AirTag processes are also separate.
Fictional example: Taylor wants one adult sibling to see a location for a planned visit, but not to assume every later family member is included. Taylor reviews both named family recipients and the future-member switch. The completed decision is “who is included now, and whether later members are automatically included.” The cited Family Sharing topic does not provide the Custom duration picker described for Find My friends; arrange any intended ending point and review actual access separately.
Source: [2].
Three checks before relying on location sharing
The following cases are original fictional situations. They test the documented distinctions, not a real device or relationship outcome.
Case 1
A location-sharing request arrives. Does declining it mean the app proved someone is untrustworthy?
Show answer and explanation for case 1
No. The current guide permits Cancel; a response to access is not evidence of a person’s motives.
Choose whether to share and state the voluntary purpose if appropriate. A software control cannot establish trust, consent to monitoring or a relationship conclusion.
Case 2
A phone stays at home while its owner carries another device. Is the displayed location automatically the carried device’s location?
Show answer and explanation for case 2
No. Inspect Sharing From and the selected source device.
Apple supplies Use This iPhone as My Location and a specific paired GPS + Cellular watch exception. Do not assume every device follows the carried person in the same way.
Case 3
You switch off Allow Friend Requests. Have you used the documented control that hides your location from everyone?
Show answer and explanation for case 3
No. These are different settings.
The guide uses Me → Share My Location off to hide all sharing. Allow Friend Requests addresses new requests; inspect existing recipients and any Family Sharing scope rather than claiming a broader change.
Sources and further reading
- Apple iPhone User Guide: Share your location in Find My on iPhoneComplete selected sharing topic: source device, recipients, duration, one-person stop/pause, all-location switch and requests; no precision or delivery test. English guide, iOS 27 selected, captured 11 November 2026; full selected topic, not whole manual.
- Apple iPhone User Guide: Share locations with family members and locate their lost devices on iPhoneComplete selected Family Sharing topic: organizer/member sharing, future-members switch and parental-control caveats. Child control and lost-device/AirTag workflows are not taught here. English guide, iOS 27 selected, captured 11 November 2026; full selected topic, not whole manual.